Holiday season brings out a need to reach out to comrades in need

By Matt Scherer 

Soldiers will see an influx of phone calls, text and visit from their officers and noncommissioned officers under  Army Secretary Daniel Driscoll’s holiday directive to lower the service’s influx of holiday suicides. 

The directive starts now until Jan. 15. 

It’s something veterans can consider, especially for their friends and comrades during this holiday season.   

Secretary Driscoll’s  policy noted how daily check-ins saw a zero suicide rate among the 11th Airborne Division.   The Arctic Rangers serve at Fort Wainwright and Joint Base Elemendorf-Richardson, an area that cause its soldiers to experience extreme cold and darkness, two factors that could cause suicidal thoughts. 

The new Army policy encourages supervisors to take an active role in promoting resilience skills by encouraging and even taking junior officers and enlisted members to mental health or to their chaplain. 

Veterans can follow Secretary Driscoll’s guidelines by reaching out to their friends and their families with phone calls or a text message.  If needed, they can drive a friend to a mental health professional’s office.

With today’s phone technology, it’s easy to leave not only a voice message or a follow-on text. 

I asked my M365 pilot for some suggested voice or text messages to share with those who find themselves not able to pt together a message.  This is what my AI connection suggested. 

 

  • “Hey [Name], just wanted to wish you a peaceful holiday season. You matter to me, and I’m glad you’re in my life.” 
  • “Thinking of you today—hope you find a little joy and calm this holiday. I’m here if you need to talk.” 

Connection-Focused 

  • “Holidays can feel heavy sometimes. If you need someone to chat with or just share a laugh, I’m only a text away.” 
  • “You’re important to me. Let’s catch up soon—coffee, call, or just a quick hello. Whatever works for you.” 

Encouraging and Uplifting 

  • “Sending you strength and warmth this season. You’ve got people who care about you—including me.” 
  • “No matter what this holiday looks like, you’re not alone. I’m here for you.” 

Lighthearted but Caring 

  • “Holiday vibes incoming ✨ Just wanted you to know you’re on my mind. Let me know if you want to swap funny stories or memes! 

 

However someone with military ties makes the communication effort, it’s a good time to pick random times to call what the Navy terms as their “shipmatesP to contact their friends in need.